I’ve seen posts about how some people treat their spouse poorly after getting married. Why do people come to despise and hurt the person they once vowed to love? There are also videos of people caught in adultery right before their wedding. Why would someone take marriage vows when they’re clearly in love with someone else? You wouldn’t intentionally hurt the one you truly love.
On social media, I saw a woman explaining to others why they shouldn’t engage in sex with just anyone, especially if they have a husband or boyfriend. She shared statistics and the long-term consequences of making sexually immoral choices. As these women age, the statistics show that things often don’t get better—they are frequently left alone and destitute in their later years.
Experiencing infidelity is both humiliating and painful for both parties involved. While it’s possible to come back from this, it requires deep internal work—work on the soul to get back on the right path. Truly understanding what real love is can be life-changing.
As 1 Corinthians 13:13 says, “And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
Infidelity and betrayal have caused immense harm to many, both men and women. The emotional toll is devastating, impacting relationships, finances, mental health, and even physical well-being. Some people, in their pain, may feel like giving up entirely. The damage isn’t just emotional—it can lead to financial ruin as well.
The pain of betrayal can leave your self-esteem and self-worth shattered. You may feel there’s no way out. When your soul feels bankrupt, it often shows up in your finances too. The person who betrayed you either doesn’t care or simply can’t, because their own soul is bankrupt. They lack the love necessary to help you heal. That’s why you need to find a source of unconditional love. If you’ve experienced this, there is something you can do.
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